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Is Your Once Loving Child Pulling Away More Each Day?
Discover the Proven Way to Reconnect During the Challenging Preteen and Teen Years...
Act Now—Rebuild Your Relationship Before the Distance Becomes Permanent!
You Know That Crushing Guilt After Losing Your Cool or Making Empty Threats...
It Happens When You’re Triggered, Feel Powerless, and Exhausted From Trying Everything to Reach Your Child—Only to Face Their Relentless Emotional Outbursts and Defiance.
But Here’s the Hard Truth: Losing your cool doesn’t just hurt your relationship; it leaves your child feeling deeply misunderstood and threatens their emotional safety—not only with you but for years to come.
Have you found yourself:
- Drained and Frustrated, Trying Every Parenting Approach Without Success?
- Worried About Their Future Because Your Relationship Feels Broken and Trust Is Missing?
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Trapped In all-out screaming matches with your big-feeling child, unsure how to cultivate the loving relationship you desire.
- On the Receiving End of Emotional Outbursts, Feeling Increasingly Powerless and Helpless?
- Sounding Like a Broken Record—Lecturing, Nagging, Begging—Only to Lose Your Cool Again and Again?
- Second-Guessing Every Decision, Desperately Searching for a Solution That Actually Works?
- Afraid That One Wrong Move Today Could Lead to a Heartbreaking "No-Contact" Story Years From Now?
Mama, You're Not Alone!
The World Feels Chaotic, and Noise About the 'Best' Parenting Approach Is Overwhelming...
Many Parents Want to Raise Their Kids with Compassion—Call It Gentle Parenting, If You Will...
But Here’s the Real Issue: This was NOT the parenting you experienced growing up. So when the pressure’s on, you often revert to those old, familiar ways.
Punishments, Groundings, Taking Away Phones, Computers, Social Media—Anything to Make Them 'Care.' But All You Get Are Eye Rolls, Sighs, Snarky Remarks, and a Stubborn Wall Reminding You That No Matter What You Do, They Seem Unaffected...
✨That They Are Not Worth YOUR Effort.✨
When You Let Your Emotions Win, Your Child Is Losing—Over and Over Again.
Dismissing This as 'Teen Angst' and Hoping They'll 'Grow Out of It' Only Fuels a Vicious Cycle That Tears Down Their Self-Worth and Your Relationship.
And the Longer These Issues Go Unaddressed, The More Complicated They Become—Leading to Tougher Parenting Battles and Long-Term Emotional Struggles for Your Child.
It’s Time for a Simple Yet Powerful Shift—A New, Healthier Path Forward...
Living CALM -- That’s the SHIFT You’ve Been Looking For!
This Proven Method Empowers Parents to Handle Even the Most Triggering Moments, Helping You Raise Big-Feeling Kids with Less Struggle, More Self-Confidence (for Both of You), and a Deep, Lasting Connection.
Imagine if...
- You Could Finally Stop Taking Their Behaviors and Attitudes Personally, Becoming the Unshakable Safe Place They Can Always Count On—No Matter Their Emotional Ups and Downs.
- You Didn’t Have to Yell, Punish, or Guilt-Trip to Get Your Child to Help, Cooperate, and Listen.
- You Could Enjoy Calm, Productive Conversations—Free From Snark, Attitude, and Eye Rolls—and Truly Grow Together.
- You Built Unbreakable Trust in Your Relationship and Felt Confident That Your Child Is Equipped to Make Healthy, Safe Choices as They Grow Into Their Teen Years and Beyond.
- You Became the Parent You’ve Always Wanted to Be—Parenting with Confidence, Compassion, and Peace of Mind.
This Is Exactly What Families Are Achieving with Living CALM.
INTRODUCING...
The Breakthrough Parenting Resource Crafted Exclusively for Moms Ready to Transform Their Family Dynamic.
Imagine Effortlessly Guiding Your Child to Truly Understand Themselves, Make Wise Choices, and Face Life with Unshakable Confidence.
Say Hello to a Future Where Your Big Feelers Thrive—Deeply Connected to Their Authentic Self and Flourishing Every Day.
Because Every Mom Deserves the Ultimate Key to Unlocking Her Child’s Fullest Potential.
ENROLL ME NOW!
I feel much calmer and able to tackle the issues that we're having with our son now without being completely overwhelmed and underwater. I just want to thank you for that. For keeping it real and using your education, skills, and experience to help moms like me. I don't feel so alone and so bad about myself as a mother as l was feeling.
Megan
AMS - Mom of 3
This course has definitely given me perspective on how there can be multiple true stories and sides to one situation. I have learned to step outside my initial emotional reactions to see things differently. appreciate that this group has taught me to treat and respect my teen as his own person, giving him a voice and a vote on things concerning him.
Asena
This course has given me so many tools to support my kids who have struggled with mental health issues for so long. Pam and the community have been so helpful in normalizing the tough stuff and providing support without judgment, this was so huge for me.
AMS Mom of 2
"THEIR RELATIONSHIP HAS COMPLETELY SHIFTED"
My kids used to fight, because they interpreted their siblings’ actions as uncaring, and it caused me so much stress. But now they have learned how to communicate and regulate their own emotions, they have a deeper more loving. connected relationships between themselves without me being involved in refereeing their interactions, and when there is conflict we all have the tools to handle it.
Jodi G - Mom of 3 Daughters
MODULE 1
Calm Mastery
An introduction to how all of this actually works—so you can tackle the overwhelm, reactivity, and emotional chaosthat often lead to conflict and disconnection at home. You’ll learn how to soothe your nervous system, so you can respond instead of react when your big-feeling child is struggling to manage theirs. This creates a more peaceful home environment where your child feels safe to grow, learn, and navigate their emotions—even when the outside world feels anything but calm.
MODULE 2
Your Resilience Blueprint
Here you will address the inconsistency and emotional rollercoaster of parenting by integrating nervous system regulation habits and innovative brain hacks designed to fortify your mental resilience and emotional stability. This ensures a safe, supportive, and consistent environment for your big-feeling child to thrive in. By modeling emotional management and regulation, your child will feel safe to figure out this process for themselves, knowing they can trust you to stay steady—even when emotions run high.
MODULE 3
Blocks to Breakthroughs
The mind is so powerful! In this module, you will unravel the tangled web of thoughts and beliefs that obstruct your desired parenting path. You'll gain clarity and awareness around the limiting beliefs that hinder your confidence, empowering you to guide your big-feeling child with assurance—even when things feel messy or unpredictable.
MODULE 4
Rewiring the Brain
As you move along your journey of shifting your thoughts and beliefs, you'll learn to move from negative, knee-jerk reactions to thoughtful, intentional responses by altering your brain’s processing patterns. You’ll overcome self-sabotage and communication barriers that create distance, and instead, begin to foster a closer, more connected bond with your big-feeling child.
MODULE 5
How to Talk So Your Child Will Listen
Communication is at the root of your ability to connect with and support your child. In this module, you’ll tackle the communication breakdowns and boundary battles that often lead to arguments, defiance, and disconnection. You’ll master listening and communication skills that ensure your big-feeling child feels heard and respected, promoting mutual understanding and a stronger, more cooperative relationship.
MODULE 6
Becoming a Mindful Mom
In this module, you will break away from the cycle of judgment and criticism that strains the mother-daughter relationship. Embrace mindfulness principles to nurture a supportive, open relationship that encourages your daughter to be her best self.
MODULE 7
Mini-Daily Practices to Stay Chill
With daily mini-practices and easy-to-follow resources, you’ll explore cutting-edge strategies to shift the way your brain processes, focuses, and communicates. You’ll develop simple, sustainable habits that foster mindfulness and emotional regulation, enhancing your ability to engage and connect with your big-feeling child—even on the toughest days.
MODULE 8
Parenting with Confidence
When you learn to trust yourself and your child, your whole relationship shifts. In this module, you’ll confront the uncertainty and second-guessing that undermines your parenting and drains your energy. You’ll learn to trust your intuition, understand your big-feeling child’s emotional needs, and cultivate a relationship grounded in mutual understanding and trust—so both of you can feel more confident, capable, and connected.
MODULE 9
Peer Pressure & Your Preteen (Teen)
Raising preteen and teenage kids comes with its own unique set of challenges. In this module, you’ll uncover the most effective ways to help your big-feeling child navigate peer pressure, avoid risky behavior, and embrace who they truly are. You’ll also fine-tune your ability to lead authentically, tune out societal noise, and focus on what truly matters for your child’s emotional development, self-worth, and overall well-being.
Through the Living CALM Experience, You Receive:
Fast-track your success!
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Instant access to the pre-work that will immediately shift how you show up for your big-feeling child—with more clarity, calm, and confidence.
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Nine transformative video + audio training modules (outlined above) to guide you step-by-step through building a connected, emotionally healthy relationship with your child.
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Lifetime access + all future updates, so you can return to the tools whenever you need them, and stay aligned as your child grows and evolves.
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Beautifully designed workbooks + transcripts for every module to make learning easy and accessible—however you prefer to take it in.
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A powerful library of affirmations, meditations, journaling prompts, and embodied practices to help you anchor your growth and integrate everything you’re learning.
Plus Instant Access to these bonuses upon enrollment:
Fast-track your success!
- BONUS 1 >> 3-Month Access to the Aligned Moms Society
($599 Value)
Step into a powerful community of like-minded moms and receive direct support from Pam with 2–3 live group coaching calls per month. This is the only place you get this level of real-time guidance—ask your biggest parenting questions and get personalized, compassionate coaching to help you navigate even the trickiest moments with your child. - BONUS 2 >> Harmony at Home: Parenting Without Yelling
($197 Value)
A 28-day immersion into effective, real-world parenting tools to get your child to listen, cooperate, and engage—without yelling, punishments, or screen time threats. You’ll discover what actually works (even when they push back) and begin to lead with calm confidence instead of chaos. - BONUS 3 >> Vault Access: Past Coaching Calls Library
($9,997 Value)
Get instant access to the full AMS Vault of coaching calls, packed with high-impact insights on mindset, parenting, emotional regulation, boundary-setting, and navigating the complex evolution of your relationship with your child. This treasure trove of support is the equivalent of having Pam in your back pocket, ready to guide you anytime. - BONUS 4 >> The CALM Motherhood Immersion
($697 Value – Pay-in-Full Exclusive)
This is your monthly anchor for growth and integration. When you pay in full, you’ll unlock 12 months of exclusive content—EFT tapping sessions, guided meditations, and powerful journaling prompts—to help you deepen your transformation, embody your CALM, and lead your family with unshakable presence.
This is where the biggest breakthroughs happen.
Only available to pay-in-full clients.
It’s Time to Parent With a Plan—Not Just Hope.
Think Back Over the Last 6 Months...
How Many Moments Felt Like a Confusing Blur of Emotional Outbursts, Second-Guessing, and Walking on Eggshells?
Now, Imagine the Next 6 Months.
It Can Change—But Which Direction It Takes Is Completely Up to You.
You can keep fumbling through arguments, power struggles, and disconnection, feeling like you’re always one step behind while your child drifts further away. The truth is, our kids are navigating a world wildly different from the one we grew up in—armed with new language about boundaries, gaslighting, emotional labor, and therapy concepts we often didn’t learn until adulthood (if ever).
And They’re Calling Us Out.
Not because they don’t love us—because they need more from us:
More Emotional Safety. More Clarity. More Calm. More Leadership.
But if you weren’t taught how to feel safe, set boundaries, or regulate your emotions... how can you teach them?
That’s Exactly Where Living CALM Comes In.
This is your blueprint for raising your big-feeling child with clarity, confidence, and connection. You’ll navigate these messy, emotional developmental phases with support and ease—instead of fear and frustration.
You’ll create a powerful new trajectory for your relationship—one that fosters:
✨ Cooperation Instead of Conflict
✨ Connection Instead of Chaos
✨ A Healthy, Resilient Sense of Self—for Both of You
Living CALM Teaches What Most of Us Never Learned:
How to stay steady when your child is falling apart—and how to guide them safely through the storm.
Ready to Create a More Connected Future?
Don’t wait for the next breakdown to decide it’s time to change.
Join Living CALM today and take the first step toward transforming your parenting—and your relationship with your child—one calm, empowered moment at a time.
👉 ENROLL NOW and start building the calm, confident foundation your family deserves.
Meet Your Teacher
Hi! I'm Pam Godbois, LICSW
Licensed therapist, parenting coach, brain hack enthusiast, and proud mom of a teenage daughter.
As both a therapist and mother, I have a deep passion—and heartfelt understanding—for supporting moms navigating the unique challenges of raising big feelers.
What I’ve discovered time and again is that moms often fall into parenting patterns based on how they themselves were raised—even when they desperately want to parent differently.
Parenting often becomes especially challenging around 3rd grade, and many moms try everything to fix things, only to find it makes matters worse.
With over 25 years of experience, I’ve learned there are powerful strategies that can help our big feeling kids avoid common pitfalls, struggles, and challenges.
And that’s exactly what we’re doing inside Living CALM. I can’t wait to support you on this journey!
xoxo, Pam
I would go from 0-100 in a matter of seconds whenever chaos arose or kids started yelling. I had no idea how to manage my own emotions/nervous system and let that overflow into how I would react to a situation. I feel a great sense of calm now that I have the tools to manage my nervous system and I feel that has had such a positive impact on my family as well as my own wellbeing.
Amanda
Pam gives us the best tools and accountability for helping us feel successful as mothers.
I no longer feel lost googling for answers and l've stopped torturing myself with perpetual uncertainty. The brain- space, and sanity this group has given me is Amazing!
Mandy
I feel as though I have healed my relationship with Miss 11 and she's voluntarily hugging me and saying she loves me. We had FUN tonight swimming with the dog. Gives me the encouragement that I can make this work for Mr 8 & I'm setting boundaries and making sure my needs are also met.
Leslie
The encouragement, self-reflection, and guidance I received truly aligns me with the tools I needed to show up as my best self as a mother. One of the most helpful parts of the program so far was the flow-by-flow language customized to my particular situation. I used that language and mindset) over and over again.
Dawn
I was struggling with my 11-year-old so much when I joined, and this course has been a game changer for getting me to shift my approach AND getting her to be more agreeable. We are no longer fighting over every little thing.
Monica
Pam's understanding of neurodivergence and experience with mental health has been better than any therapy I have had in my life. Not only that, it has helped me shift my approach and stay calm with my kids, which has been SO hard for me.
LC- Mom of 2
This course has been so amazingly helpful, but I'll be honest, the best thing is the fact that Pam swears, such a great balance of expert teaching and authentic fellow mom, it's like I've finally found my tribe.
Jo
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